Reflections on Tisha B'Av

It's hard for me to feel Tisha B’Av this year. I don't need a break from weddings because there are no weddings. I stopped eating meat a few months ago, and I rarely drink wine except on Shabbat anyway. I don’t go to any concerts or other social events. And in fact, over the past four months I haven't shaved more than once every few weeks, so what does it matter to abstain for nine days. And yet, precisely this year, I need Tisha B’Av.

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Nancy Scheff
The Things We Will Lose

What are we mourning? Certainly not anything as profound as life and death itself – something we know so many others are suffering through – so what is it? So in this data-driven age of metrics, allow me to attempt to quantify the unquantifiable emotional losses of a cancelled summer

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Camp & the Currency of Trust

Trust is the foundational currency of summer camp. Campers wholly trust their counselors. Counselors and staff trust their administration, and the administration, in turn, trusts their counselors and staff. Trust, of course, is also vital between administration and parents, as parents relinquish some of their responsibilities to administration and administration agrees to take on these responsibilities while maintaining the safety of all of its constituents. 

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